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Involving Little Ones in Big Days: Raising Nice Humans

March 1, 2018 By Kari 1 Comment

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I truly believe toddlers are smarter than we sometimes give them credit for. “He’s not really going to get it anyway.” It’s remarkable how many times I’ve heard that when discussing involving our children in certain holidays, celebrations, or significant days throughout the year. I don’t buy it. We never underestimate how much Wyatt has the potential to understand about any situation. We’ve always parented that way; assuming he’ll understand what’s going on, not assuming he won’t. Maybe he does and maybe, sometimes, he doesn’t – but why on earth would we not at least make an effort?

So, yesterday, we used Pink Shirt Day as an opportunity to talk with Wyatt about being kind to people. Of course we wore pink, but we also discussed how our actions can affect how other people feel, and how we always want to make those around us feel good. In the years to come, we’ll delve deeper into the history of the day, what it means, why it was started, and how we can make an impact. But for now, this is the level at which he can be involved.

Holidays and significant days throughout the year are perfect teachable moments. It doesn’t have to be a huge undertaking (it can be if you want and have the time!). Sometimes a simple conversation is all you need. Here are a few other ideas on how to have impactful times with your little one on significant days:

Valentine’s Day: Gift flowers to strangers. This year, we picked up a bucket of roses from Heather de Kok Floral Design, went to the Edmonton International Airport, and handed them out to complete strangers at the arrivals gate. It was incredible to see a physical shift in people once they realized the flowers were actually for them! Through the experience, Wyatt and I talked about spreading love and joy.

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Pride: Make a sensory bin using colours of rice from the Pride flag (something we’re planning to do this year!). Make it a family date at the Pride Parade. At this point, you’re just familiarizing them with the celebration. As they get older, you can discuss the reasons and history behind the occasion.

Canada Day: In the days leading up, sing the National Anthem as your bedtime song. Show them Canada on the map of the world, and discuss where you live. Do a few Canada Day crafts (here are some good ideas) and involve them in prepping for your Canada Day party. Go for a walk and have them count how many Canada flags they see!

Thanksgiving: Deliver meals to others before you eat yours. Volunteer with an organization in your city that delivers meals to people in need. It’s a lesson in being grateful and helping others who are less fortunate.

Giving Tuesday: Pick a charity and take your kid(s) to make the donation. Maybe the money can even come out of their little piggy bank! You could even organize a tour of the organization’s headquarters.

Christmas: Drop off gift to less fortunate kids and talk about the importance of giving and not just receiving. Discuss the simple act of being grateful for what you have and taking time to make others happy.

 

Moral of the story: it’s never too early to start teaching your kid about being a nice human being. Look for teachable moments on these notable days. What’s amazing is the added bonus – you’re getting the reminder too!

What are some ways you like to involve your little ones in big days?

 

Other reads you may be interested in:

Toddler Misbehaving: How to Deal

10 Parenting Time Savers

No More Birthday Presents

 

xx

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  1. Jacqueline Jacek says

    March 2, 2018 at 10:15 pm

    Love this Kari! Thank you for this wonderful reminder and great ideas 💙

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It's truly amazing what our bodies can do. 💛

#31weeks #sunsoutbumpsout #beachball
Life update. ❤ I’ll be keeping this piece of Life update. ❤

I’ll be keeping this piece of art forever. Wyatt painted this for me back in January, when I was isolated with Covid. I taped it up on the wall beside the bed during my stay in our guest room. If you zoom in, you’ll see me in the front with the big baby belly. (Wyatt calls me ‘big belly’ these days!)

Rainbows represent promise, hope, and new beginnings. 

It's been a rough past few weeks for our family, hence my absence online. Thank you so much for your messages of love, concern, and support. They mean so much to us. I know I share a lot with you on here, but I’m not going to get into details this time. Just know we're doing alright. Junebug is great (and kicking and rolling around non-stop!), Wyatt is awesome per usual, and Ryan and I are rock solid.

I had to take a break from work. My main focus has always been (and will
always be) protecting the peace, health, and well-being of our family unit. 

Social media can be a beautiful place where connection and inspiration happens. Unfortunately, it can also foster hurtful and harmful attacks. I’ve learned so much over these past few weeks, and have deeply reflected on my presence and future plans online. I’ll share more soon, but for now, I just wanted to check in, say a sincere thanks, and let you know we’re all good. ❤️
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🤰I’m playing catchup on some pregnancy blog posts but I wanted to make sure this was up, especially for those who have been following our journey. 

👉 Head on over to KariSkelton.com for ‘Pregnancy Q&A: The First Trimester’ where I get into all of it. Link is in my bio.

❔️Please ask any questions. That’s the whole reason why I share about this. I believe sharing our experiences and personal stories helps all of us feel less alone and often validates what we’re going through. 

(If you can believe it, I took a video of the exact moment I found out but it disappeared from my files. Poof! Gone.💨 Of all the videos to lose…. 🙈 But very happy to have this photo).

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You’re invited to pop down to the party between 11-5 to celebrate with us! 🎉There’s birthday torte, a whole bunch of perks, specialty tastings, and additional in-store giveaways, including a beautiful Camp Chef XT Wood Pellet Grill! 🙆‍♀️

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